"This Isn't How I Pictured It"

bethlehem

A few months ago, I had the privilege of visiting the real Bethlehem. After a lifetime of singing “O Little Town,” I had conjured up my own mental snapshots of the nativity, complete with a Disney-esque soundtrack.

But the sights and sounds of my journey to the real Bethlehem were quite different. In fact, it was a jarring potpourri of humanity, a sensory overload of the high-definition kind. A very real city, crying out to capture the attention of us pilgrimage-type-tourists. And people...lots of people...loud people...moving as a mob through the beautiful sanctuary of the Church of the Nativity built upon the supposed site of Jesus‘ birth. I pushed together with the crowd through the narrow passageway leading down to the cave-like room. Following the path of textured tapestries and hanging candles, I held my hope of kneeling at the marble-altar-slab where I could touch the “actual” birthplace of Jesus. And if I pushed hard enough and made enough demands, perhaps even I could scare the human mob away for just a few seconds so that someone could snap my sacred-moment-photo in this very holy place.

Yes, it was in THAT crazy moment, trying to plan, capture and grab my holy moment with baby Jesus, that something happened. It was as if some laser-accurate device pointed right at my heart and I became flooded with my own emotion. I heard a loud, internal voice and it was mine - angry and disappointed that my holy moment wasn’t turning out to be so holy. In the real-time chaos, I had a hard time gathering myself back to reality and I really just wanted to take the photo so that I could have this special memory. Now, I was just overwhelmed that this was happening too fast, and so NOT like I had imagined it. And there...while fighting the flood of emotion and the unease of just going through the motions of this once-in-a-lifetime-moment...there it was...

...the other voice.

“This is why I came.” “This is what I was born into.” “It wasn’t what the children of Israel were expecting.” “It wasn’t how Mary and Joseph pictured it either.” It was, in fact, ugly. It was smelly. It was crowded. There was no room. It was painful. They were tired. They were in a crowd, yet they were alone. It was exactly this back then. And it remains exactly this now. “This is what I was born into. And this is why I came. And I am still here.”

The tears came. I couldn’t explain it. Sometimes when God’s voice breaks through, there is only silence. And today, as I look back into that scene, sitting in my comfortable life in Montrose in the midst of yet another Christmas season, I realize how many expectations I put on God - for myself, for my family, and for His church.

“This is why I came.” As I reflect on what it really means to come home for Christmas, I’m praying that God will keep breaking through ALL of my expectations and allow me to experience the real power and truth of His gift.

12 comments (Add your own)

1. MWM wrote:
Very nice!

Fri, December 14, 2012 @ 5:34 PM

2. Carol Penido wrote:
This was so well written,Cyndi. I can imagine having the same feelings as you, the same expectations, and can only hope I would receive the revelation that came to you. It is interesting to read this, because last Easter, for tradition's sake, I attended service at La Canada Presbyterian Church with my in laws. Pastor Gary told of his pilgrimage to the Church of the Nativity and he also had the same initial disappointment that you did. He went on to have some good realizations later, but I do recall his initial encounter that made him frustrated.

Thanks for the article and Merry Christmas!

Fri, December 14, 2012 @ 5:41 PM

3. Lynn Keller wrote:
I enjoyed your article. You captured the energy of the mob scene very well and I could actually feel the same frustration until you got to God's voice. I was suddenly relieved. What a wonderful moment. Thank you for sharing.

Sat, December 15, 2012 @ 5:41 AM

4. Diana DiConti wrote:
Thanks you for sharing this. I actually broke down in tears after you shared about the loneliness and the very reason God gave us His only Son. Tears that were so unexpected were so welcoming. Thanks you for your heart felt experience.I

Sat, December 15, 2012 @ 5:53 AM

5. Dennis Clark wrote:
Dear Cindi

I can't get into the details right now, but the lesson you learned and shared in your blog concerning "expectations" so resonates in my heart and mind right now that I sense some peace in my situation. For my family's sake--and especially my own--I may write more about my feelings and the perspective your experience has given me in a season of life where comfort was expected, and in a season of the year where joy is expected.

Thank you,
Dennis Clark

Sat, December 15, 2012 @ 6:06 AM

6. Alesha wrote:
Wow that moved me and spoke deep into my heart and life .... We often forget the reality of the world he came into its the same crazy sin filled world of today except the amazing gift of grace and forgiveness he came to give us exists today .... Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful story.

Sat, December 15, 2012 @ 6:07 AM

7. Christine Sauceda wrote:
Thank you Cindi for sharing, reminding and giving perspective on your experience. How wonderful the moment when we feel God break through and truly know His presence.

Sat, December 15, 2012 @ 7:03 AM

8. Cyndi Roberts wrote:
Thank you all for sharing with me - it means so much! I will be praying for all of us to have open eyes, ears, and hearts for a fresh sense of expectation this series - God's kind of expectation that rises so far above our own! Much love to you!

Sat, December 15, 2012 @ 8:00 PM

9. sue mansis wrote:
Wow, nothing like real life experience to bring us back to spiritual reality! The ugliness of humanity truly is the proof enough that Christmas continues to be a miracle. That God would have seen it all, past, present & future, knowing we will never change, yet still choose to give us another chanc593d4e by His sacrifice....so deeply sobering and truly 'awe'some. Thank you Cyndi, for being the conduit for God to remind us again why He came, and continues to give us Hope.

Sun, December 16, 2012 @ 9:42 AM

10. Judy Winter wrote:
Thanks Cindi!
Yes, it was the census that year and many many people were there. I would not have remembered that either, without your words! I felt the emotion as I read and I do see why he came better because of your words!

Sun, December 16, 2012 @ 11:30 AM

11. Betty wrote:
Thank you Cindi,
You captured that experience so well and brought home the reality of my own "Christmas expectations". Now, even the songs seem to have new meaning and conjure up completely different visions. This Christmas I am looking forward to seeing Jesus in unlikely places during unlikely moments.

Wed, December 19, 2012 @ 8:22 AM

12. Cyndi Roberts wrote:
Betty - I totally agree with you about the songs. On Sunday when I was singing the carols in the Christmas choir, it felt as though I was singing them for the first time. Every line took on a new meaning. Thanks for reminding me of that.

Wed, December 19, 2012 @ 8:49 AM

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